They both made pretty bold moves.

That takes working really hard when were not, Lively told Tamblyn.

Just like financial planning and sustaining thatit takes balance.

Blake Lively und Ryan Reynolds bei der Met Gala 2014

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Thirteen years andfour daughterslater, this rule seems to be working out for them.

We dont split up, Reynolds toldAccess Hollywoodin 2020.

I get to spend a lot of time with my girls.

Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively attend SNL 50: The Anniversary Special