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Camila Cabelloand Shawn Mendes started out as good friends, then became one of pop musicsmost talked-about couples.
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Things really started heating up between the collaborators in July 2019, but Shawnmila was over by November 2021.
What happened and how did we get here?
Heres a complete timeline of Camila Cabello and Shawn Mendess relationship.

Mendes and Cabello perform at the 2015 Jingle Ball in LA.
Mendes replied, Yeah, that was me.
I didnt talk to anybody.
You were the only person that talked to me.

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Like, you were the only one of everybody on that tour who would say words to me.
And I thought you were out of your mind, he continued.
Id be in my bus where no one could see me.

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Id be like, Shes insane.
terminate the window and go to sleep.
Yeah, she rocks, he said.

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We were just backstage hanging out, MendestoldRolling Stoneof how they wrote the song while on Taylor Swifts1989tour.
I pulled out my guitar and we were just messing around, not really thinking about writing a song.
May 19, 2017:Mendes tweets about Cabellos song Crying in the Club.

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Speechless.. goosebumps all over.
Youre incredible, he wrote.
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2018
April 2018:The social media lovefest continues.
During an interview withBeats 1, Mendes calls Cabello his favorite person in the whole world.
She can feel hurt like no other, but she can feel love like no other.
A few days later, she pops up at a Mendes show.
Canadian fury + Latin sass, she wrote in the caption.
July 2019:The PDA begins as Mendes and Cabello arespotted holding handsin West Hollywood.
They alsopartied togetheron the 4th of July.
They were caughtkissingbyTMZin San Francisco.
They looked very into each other.
Shawn and Camila were splitting pancakes, a sourcetoldUs Weeklyabout the encounter.
We have been dating since July 4th officially, he says during an October concert in Australia,perPeople.
Cabelloprofessed her lovefor him on the Gram, as well.
Happy birthday to this magic human, I love you!!!
!, she wrote.
Falling in love is like an infinite amount of levels and layers and angles, shesaid.
I fell in love and just opened up.
Everything was written in present moment.
The reported couple wrapped up the month with a very sexyperformance of Senoritaat the VMAs.
EvenTaylor Swift was shook.
September 2019:Mendes finallyconfirmsthat hes in a relationship.
Theres another person involved, and I cant say things that I feel.
Its not just me deciding, you know?
That same month, Cabello gives another interview toElleabout Mendes: People can say whatever they want to say.
That is how I want to live.
I never want to pop crack open the door for people to feel like they are involved.
Like I said, I want it to be mine and [his].
Thats why Im so tight-lipped about it: because I want to protect it.
Cabello adds, It really hurt our feelings.
Then they proceed to jokingly kiss and lick each others faces in a bit of self-parody.
See for yourself below.
He also confirms that hes met his girlfriends parents.
Ive known them a long time, he said.
If I told you the whole story of Camila, it would take a long time.
I would say that you have to fight for someone you really love.
And if you really, truly love them, then youll get them.
It just takes time.
But it looks like the singers patience definitely paid off.
Were pretty happy, she said after the host brought up her relationship with Mendes.
I really, really love him a lot.
Its almost more scary because you have more to lose, she said.
When you first start dating a person and you know nothing about them, theres less at risk there.
But even back when they first met, she now says there was a spark.
We love the reaction of the woman sitting next to them, by the way.
November 18, 2019:Rolling Stonepublishes an interview with Cabello, who cant stop gushing about her man.
I dont think we knew what to do with those feelings.
It was this awkward thing where we both liked each other, but we werent together.
It was just weird.
Luckily, they reconnected thanks to the song Senorita.
Our paths just didnt cross in that way romantically until we started hanging out again and writing.
For me, it just brought it back, the singer explained.
Well, I feel personally targeted.
I feel personally attacked, Cabello said, adding sarcastically, Yeah, PDA is terrible.
You honestly get kind of desensitized to it.
Youre like, Well, might as well just make out on Instagram!
she says.Werenot complaining, Camila.
I actually just get shy, weirdly, shetoldExtra.
I for sure had a crush…. We were stupid.
I think we both had a crush, but were being babies about it, she says.
But were grown now!
But I definitely, definitely, definitely had a crush.
She explains, It took me, like, two months to be able to call him baby.
Hand me that water over there?
My song comes on the radio or something, and Im like, Everythings about you.
Theyre all, they have always been about you, he says.
She goes, What do you mean?
Like, Theyre all about you.
Like every song Ive ever wrote.
October 22, 2020:The couple also posted these PDA-filled photos.
He told the magazine he believed that if you dont work out, youre going to lose fans.
Now, he says, Cabello has rubbed off on him and changed the way he sees his physique.
December 17, 2020:Mendes reveals his relationship with Cabello turned romantic after a simple text exchange.
This is a thing.
And I have the text, I have this, I screenshotted the text messages.
He also says, She is completely all in or nothing, in theSiriusXMinterview,according toElle.
And I think thats something that I wasnt at the beginning of our relationship.
The blow hurts that much more if it ends, you know?
And I kind of learned that every day.
Shes so absolutely patient with me, especially when Im stressed or anything is kind of getting to me.
And if I ever am kind of just being bite-y with her and shed be like, Its okay.
No matter what, I love you, no matter what.
And its like, thats real strength and patience and love.
Its like a movie.
2021
November 17, 2021:The coupleannounces their breakup.
News.We started our relationship as best friends and will continue to be best friends.
We so appreciate your support from the beginning and moving forward.
On March 4 the singer released a new song Bam Bam whichheavily referencesMendes in the lyrics.
And apart from my career, my focus wasnt even on my career.
She added, And same thing with those years that we were together.
I was doing therapy a lot.
My focus really has shifted.
I think as I get older, yeah, the priorities shift.
And I feel like that was that way for both of us.
Because we both started so young too, were really learning how to be healthy adults.
And that sometimes means not having your number one focus be your career.
As for how she’s feeling now?
I love Shawn, she said,perE!
And I feel like there is literally nothing but love for him.
March 21, 2022:Mendes discussesadjusting to single lifein an Instagram video.
Like, who do I call when Im, like, in a panic attack?
Who do I call when Im, like, fucking on the edge?
I think thats the reality that kind of hit me.
Its like, Oh, Im on my own now.
Now I feel like finally, Im actually on my own, and I hate that.
Thats my reality, you know?
And we respect what that means.
And therell always be transparency between us.
He gets a little deeper in an interview withE!
Camila heard this song months ago, so we have a really honest relationship, he says.
I would never really put a song out about her before she would hear it.
Were supportive of that, always.
2023
April 14, 2023:Cabello and Mendes shock fans when theyrefilmed kissing at Coachella!
April 17, 2023:A source says the pair have not rekindled their romance.
Theyve stayed in touch since their breakup and decided to meet up at Coachella since they were both going.
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