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Read your vibrators instructions.

Get your mind and body on board.

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The first step is to verify youre aroused before inserting it, says Roos.

You also want to be comfortable.

Not just in your physical position, but mentally too.

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Unless youre an exhibitionist; then go forth and conquer.

Start with what you know you like.

Youll know youve got the spot because its sensitive to the touch.

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With the one arm inside, align the external arm for maximum clit stimulation.

It may take some finagling to get both spots stimulated at the same time.

Explore with patterns, intensities, and positions.

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when you obtain the rabbit vibrator where you want it, its time to try the vibration modes.

You also want to try different positions.

Theres no one position to use your rabbit vibrator, so find the one thats best for you.

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Lean into what feels good.

Its also important to realize you dont need a vulva to enjoy a rabbit vibrator.

Remember to clean your vibrator.

Keeping your vibrator isnt just easy, but important.

Although there aretoy cleanersthat are specifically designed for sex toys, theyre really not necessary.

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