Well, Michelle Obama herself has a theory, which she explained in a recent podcast interview.

And before you ask, no, the rumors are not true.

Unfortunately, her absence was interpreted by some as a signal that her and her husbands marriage was suffering.

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As women, I think, we struggle with, like, disappointing people, Obama said.

But the truth is simply that Michelle Obama is just making the choices that are best for her.

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