And like, damn, thats hot.

Wouldnt it be nice to find a guy whos just a little pathetic?

Many of us are working 40-plus hours a week.

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We have the mental load and the wage gap.

Sexism and the patriarchy.

The loss of reproductive rights and another Trump election.

Also, men just keep behaving badly and causing more trouble than they are worth.

Just listen to the30 songsonTaylor SwiftsTortured Poets Departmentdescribing Matty Healys (alleged) crimes in excruciating detail.

That small man loved her and left her, and shesTaylor Swift.

Ladies, arent you tired of chasing around idiots who would rather chase tail than take out the trash?

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This is, essentially, the plot ofChallengers.

Its about tennis and failed ambitions and passion and homoerotic churro shots too.

But in a very simple form, its about a choice.

Who would do anythingincluding drop his best friendto win you over?

Who would become your cipher through whom you channel all your dashed dreams, just to have you?

Sure, Josh OConnors Patrick Zweig has many moviegoers hearts racing with his rakish good looks and asshole demeanor.

Does that make him even more attractive?

But who has the energy?

Imagine how refreshing it would be to have Art Donaldson (Mike Faist) as your little sweetie instead.

He may be dead inside, but hes loyal.

She actually kind of hates him for it, and that makes him want her even more.

In the end, he asks her for permission to quit.

Its not his career, after all; its both of theirs.

He doesnt just ask thoughhegrovels.

TL;DR: Art is so sprung by Tashi, he will literally do anything for her.

She could slap him in the faceliterally or metaphoricallyand he would say thank you.

He knows she has slept with Patrick many times, but he will never leave her.

Like, you know its true.

He is so down bad it should be criminal, she says.

And I need that.

Thats the energy Im looking for in my future husband.

We deserve this, dont we?

A man to bedown bad crying at the gymover us, for a change?

Stephanie McNeal is a senior editor atGlamourand the authorofSwipe Up for More!

Inside the Unfiltered Lives of Influencers.