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Lets focus on something you definitelycancontrol: your outfit.

what to wear on a first date

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Because the right look isnt just about looking goodits about feeling like the absolute best version of yourself.

So think about the setting and dress accordingly.

Keep it casual with a cute top and a well-fitted pair of jeans.

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A sleek midiskirt and blouse or alittle black dresswith high heels does the trick.

Go for an oversized blazer over a button-down shirt or a wide-leg jumpsuit that strikes the perfect balance.

Consider it style game theory: Match the moment without losing yourself in the process.

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And whatever you do, avoid the regret fityou know the one.

The shirt that starts out fine but rides up as the night goes on.

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The shoes that feel fine at home but pinch 30 minutes in.

The unfamiliar trend you convinced yourself you could pull off but secretly think looks ridiculous.

First dates come with enough unknownsyour outfit shouldnt be one of them.

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If youve never worn it before, dont let this be the test run.

Stick to a go-to date-night outfit you know works.

The goal isnt to impress themits to expressyou.

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If youre a minimalist, lean into clean lines and great tailoring.

If you love bold choices, go ahead and rock that minidress with statement jewelry.

Let your outfit introduce you before you even say hello.

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Find a Subtle Power Move Piece

Find one thingjust onethat makes you feel unstoppable.

Maybe its a denim jacket thrown over a long-sleeve maxidress, or a miniskirt with an interesting hem.

This is your signature.

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Your main character energy item that gives you a silent confidence boost.

Keep Your Beauty Look Groomed but Effortless

For your makeup and hair, think polished, but not robotic.

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Would I want to run into someone from high school wearing this?

Am I comfortable enough to actually enjoy the date?

If the answers are all yes, youre golden.

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If not, tweak until you feel effortlessly yourself.

Or at least, a good story.

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